I actually can’t believe it’s over.
Watching the show Friday night was kind of…indescribable. Like maybe it didn’t really happen. The orchestra started the Preludio and I was just overcome with so much emotion. I didn’t breath again until the end of the show.
Saturday night was….even more incapable of being described. I don’t even want risk cheapening the experience with words. They just don’t exist. Maybe surreal: a bizarre mix of fact and fantasy. I had been dreaming of this moment for so long. Every time we’d watch something in Capitalplatz and La Traviata would come on the screen during the previews, Marlen and I would freak out saying “Oh my gosh, I want that so badly!” And then we got it. Even up until the day of the performance, I didn’t think there was any way that I would actually be going on that stage as Violetta.
The show just blazed right by me. I don’t have any time offstage that I can relax and think or take it all in. During the two intermissions, I’m getting my costume on for the next scene. The only time I have offstage during the run of the show is about 13 minutes in between scene one and two of Act II, and I’m changing costumes again for about seven or eight minutes of that. As each thing ended I thought, oh my gosh…I’ll never do this again. This is the last time……..at least on this stage. As I was laying in the bed during the Intro to Act III, I was almost numb. I tried to memorize everything I could: the costumes, the voices, the set, the music…I couldn’t hold on to it long enough. Things kept slipping out of my fingers. Then the curtain opened, and I was Violetta again. It was time to go down the road to death.
I fell, the curtain closed, and the chorus ran out to take their bow. I barely remember walking onstage for my bow. I remember feeling an intense surge of happiness as I took my bow. Like everything was right. This is what I was meant to do. One more bow and then the Maestro entered. Company bow, then final curtain. I sunk down on the bed as the lights came up backstage. There was cheering all around, but I was still. It’s done. It’s over. Once you leave this stage, you’ll never come back as Violetta. I came up the stairs from the dressing rooms to cheering and applause and almost passed out. The rest of the night passed quickly. I greeted friends and family for a while, went out to eat, and went to bed.
Sunday came all too soon. Not only would it be done for me today, but it would be done for both of us. For all of us. I was an emotional wreak all through the third act. After the show we went to clean out the dressing rooms and then headed up to the stage for strike. I walked out onto the stage and stopped short. The crew was ripping our set apart. They were tearing it down to start preparing for the next show. I just stood in shock for a few minutes, unable to move. Then I had to leave to do some other job. I couldn’t help tear apart something so sacred to me.
I’m going to wake up at any minute, and this will have all been a nice dream. I’m sure I’ll wake up at some point and realize that it wasn’t quite real. But, for now, I’m content to live in this lovely dream world.